A long dinner out, in seven pictures

Sunday, the day after Coquette, because apparently we were not going to cook that whole weekend. My husband had booked somewhere without telling me what it was, which is his favorite trick, and we ended up at a dark-wood bar with candles and the kind of chairs that squeak when you slide them in.

The first drink came in a glass the size of a small fishbowl, pale pink, floating with rose petals. I’d like to say I ordered it for the aesthetics but I ordered it because I saw someone else get one, and that’s a perfectly good reason to order a thing.

We shared two small plates. Crab cakes, golden, with capers and a swipe of something peach-colored on top, laid out beside cucumbers cut on a bias and dressed light. Then a bowl of fried potato wedges under a literal blizzard of shaved parmesan, with a spicy red dipping sauce I dipped into about four times more than I needed to.

My husband ordered lobster pasta and nearly made a face when it came. It was breadcrumbed on top like a gratin, with fat chunks of lobster buried in cavatappi and spinach. He shared a bite and I took two. He noticed. I got a plate of scallops with a small steak and a couple of asparagus spears - perfectly cooked, which is rare enough that I should note it - arranged over a bed of mashed potatoes that I’d have happily eaten alone.

Dessert was a warm round of bread pudding with ice cream and candied pecans and enough caramel sauce to worry a dentist. We shared it, slowly, because that’s what you do when you’re drawing a dinner out.

And then - because you cannot end a dinner like that without an espresso martini - an espresso martini. Three beans, a good foam. My husband says they’re a young-person drink and then orders one anyway.

We walked home under streetlights that made every puddle look like lacquer. I don’t remember what we talked about. I just remember the sense of having been fed really thoroughly, by someone who’d thought about every plate.

A large coupe of pale-pink cocktail with rose petals floating on top and a single black straw, on a dark wooden bar top.
Two golden-crusted crab cakes topped with a dot of aioli and capers, plated with a tangle of sliced cucumbers dressed with herbs.
A dark bowl of fried potato wedges showered in shaved parmesan, with two small ramekins of red sauce and a peach-colored aioli.
A white bowl of cavatappi pasta with lobster, baby spinach, and cherry tomatoes, capped with a thick crust of toasted breadcrumbs.
A small steak, a row of pan-seared scallops, a few spears of asparagus and a ramekin of drawn butter, all set on a mound of mashed potatoes.
A round of warm bread pudding with a scoop of vanilla ice cream, caramel drizzle, and a scatter of candied pecans.
A martini glass of espresso martini, foamy on top with three espresso beans floating in a row, on a dark table.